Sunday, April 20, 2008

Good Day and Reflective

Yesterday was a wonderful time with Bobby's kiddos. We took Cody, Justin and Tyler to eat with us and we also had Alexa, Anthony and Bella. We went to eat some sushi!! Cody and Justin now love it since their other mommy got them started in eating in about a year ago. They are becoming little sushi pro's. Tyler just liked getting chopsticks. After that we went back to their house for me to have a heart to heart with Meaghan. She was very supportive and really growing into a beautiful young lady. It is amazing how people can break down walls when faced with adversity and I pray this is a healing time for all. We visited about 45 minutes then went to Sonic for floats and slush's. We did something we have not done in a long time we went to a nearby park that Bobby use to coach soccer at and the boys , Alexa and Bobby played soccer.
The boys enjoyed trying to school their old man. Of course my little princess Alexa turns into a soccer playing machine on the field. She loved showing off what her daddy Bobby has taught her. Anthony impressed his older brother's with his dribbling ability. He also picked up every piece of trash he saw made sure he took it to the nearest trash can. OMGoodness another BOBBY!!! Cody, Justin and Tyler were amazed at the energy their little brother has. Tyler told me that Bella looks like a little baby doll so pretty and cute. So yes over all a great day! It was hard having to tell them the news but i feel like now I have even more supporters behind me.
They were sad but I kept reassuring them I am going to be fine and I am a fighter. I have been looking for a fight song to listen to so any suggestions would be great. Please make sure everyone leaves me comments it really helps me not feel alone and able to get thru this. I need all of you!! This all really helps you realize how petty you can be sometimes and how to let go. When all is said at the end of the day what is it about? It is about how we live our life and what difference we can make in someone's life. Family and friends and loving them each and everyday to the fullest!!
Love to all!
Cara Cares

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cara, enjoy every day as you are. It will help you get through this, but remember you WILL be here and you WILL live a long life. You WILL enjoy all the weddings graduations and joys of all your children yet to come. I am so proud of you and your attitude.
I truly understand your fears right now, but you will pull through just fine. There will be a light at the end of this tunnel.

Anonymous said...

You are definately not alone in this. We are all here for you!

Cody said...

Hey mom its cody jus wanting to let u know tht we all love u and will be here 4 u through it all....
Oh and about the song thing i think i have the perfect one its Your Guardian Angel by The Red Jumpsuit Appartus.... Its one of my favorite songs....:)
Luv ya bunches, Cody